Frequently Asked Questions
1. Do you offer Couples Sessions?
Couples sessions are offered and can be customized using the offerings
which I make available for individuals. For example, your partner may
wish to observe a Tantric Journey in order to learn some new ways to
enhance your relationship.
I will introduce you to performing a Ceremonial Bath to give you another way to experience intimacy thereby enriching your love-making as well as your daily
devotion to one another.
Please be aware that I serve as the
facilitator and do not engage in any sexual activity nor do I permit
sexual activity between you and your partner. The genitals are not the
focus of my sessions. Education about erotica, and appreciation for the
entire being, are the ways to achieve true intimacy.
I am also happy to discuss sexual concerns and interests such as dysfunctions and the role of fantasy.
2. Can i experience the body cleansing,grooming, and tantra in one session ?
As a
Licensed Esthetician and a Tantra Practitioner I can offer you a unique
combination of services including an ion detoxification, male facial,
and/or hair removal.
At the very same visit you may enjoy a
Sacred Healing Tantra Journey. I will work with you to create a unique "Tantra Spa Day"
3. Do Sessions adhere to the time-frames?
I am always
prepared for your arrival. I take the time to set up a nice environment
paying close attentions to details. Comfortable silky robes are
provided, music is carefully chosen, heated basalt river rocks and
towels are attended heated, and candles are lit.
Tea and/or light snacks are prepared.
If
you are the second client of the day (I rarely have three sessions in
one day), you can be assured that I have allowed myself time to relax
after the previous session so that my energy is fresh again. I need to
do this because my sessions are very intense.
When
you arrive the time that you have booked for is devoted to you. I don't
leave you waiting because it is your time. When that time period comes
to an end, your session has been completed.
I attract highly productive individuals who appreciate that they can
visit knowing that I am prepared and that they can count on me to have
them on their way to keep to their daily schedules.
4. Are Services Confidential?
Confidentiality is always respected. I do not disclose my client
information to anyone nor would I ever discuss what our
sessions entailed without your written permission. I won't even disclose the
fact that you are a client. If we should meet on the street, I wouldn't
even acknowledge that I know you unless you greet me first. Your
privacy is that important to me. Please respect this confidentiality by
not asking me about other clients.
5. Do you travel to other locations?
I sometimes get
asked to visit a specific location. While I understand the request, I cannot
fathom doing so. The Lotus Temple is a huge influence on my energetic
state. And those who visit me will know this as soon as they enter my
home. It is a wholesome environment full of beauty and comfort. It is
befitting for a goddess to live and work. I use many remedies, often at
random, relying upon my intuition to determine the appropriate healing
remedies for you as a unique individual. My Sacred Journeys take place
in the Sanctuary where your lie upon the Alter for my ministrations. It
is a complete journey that cannot be replicated elsewhere.
6. What do you wear during a session?
I dress in
something that compliments my ethereal nature. I like to flow with
certain fabrics such as silk which are energizing for me.
7. Can you hypnotize a client or roleplay hypnosis?
Hypnosis, in the traditional sense of
the word, would not be the first choice of how I would describe my
service. Yet, the effects of a Tantric Journey, for some, can be
profound and influence lifestyle changes.
An erotic trance is
similar to a hypnotic one on a physiological level. The brain-wave
activity is most likely identical. You are in a vulnerable state, yet
retain the ability to stop the process if you are uncomfortable. The
difference is that the "suggestions" sent through me are on an energetic
level and are not spoken. My suggestions include compassion for your
highest good and immense pleasure which will make you forget you are
human.
With regard to role-play it is possible to for me to adopt a certain persona which may have a powerful effect upon your Journey
8. Are Sex Acts A Part Of The Sessions
My mission, as a Tantrica, is to
bring an erotic awareness to the body in ways that have been overlooked
for far too long. As infants and children, we took pleasure in touch on
all areas of our bodies. As infants, we played with our feet and sucked
on our toes. As children we played outside in the fresh air and were
energized by natural elements. We dipped our feet in creeks and walked
on rocks. Sensuality permeated our beings as we "played". I try
to impart this childlike mindset through inspired touch to aid the body
in re-membering what it already knows. This is very helpful in
reclaiming your personal power. It may bring about an "extra"-ordinary
reality that helps you to rely less on what is happening in the
fear-based outside world, and experience a centeredness that is beyond
the ordinary reality. You may cease to rely on external influences to
dictate your feelings and decisions. You may cease to fall into the fear
traps that the vast majority of people give into and by doing so, give
up their personal power.
Therefore, sex acts, as we
traditionally know them, are not needed in the Tantric Journey that I am
inspired to share with you.
9. What Is a Tantric Massage/Journey?
By Anna Lynn Sibal
People
who only vaguely know of tantric massage often equate tantric massage
with sexual massage. But while tantric massage can indeed be very
sensual and does wake up the sexual energies of the body, sexual
gratification is not the point of tantric massage.
The performance of tantric massage ideally has the following goals:
- To
awaken the Kundalini, which is a very powerful kind of energy that lies
dormant at the base of the spine. When the Kundalini is awakened, it
radiates upward along the spine and accelerates the capacity for the body to
heal itself.
- To activate the chakras of the body. The chakra
literally means wheel or disc in Sanskrit and it is a center of energy
in the body that is located on the spine. It is said that there are
seven main chakras along the spine, going from the base of the spine to
the neck and head.
- Because tantric massage
activates the chakras of the body, the ability of the body to heal
itself is enhanced. But it is not just the physical pain that the body
feels that is healed in tantric massage; even the emotional scars that
the person sustains in his or her lifetime are soothed and melted away.
Tantric massage also opens a person to unity on a spiritual level with
the world around him or her. The act of giving and receiving a tantric
massage is a very intimate act, as it can leave the receiver in a very
vulnerable state. Because of the trust and openness that tantric
massage requires, it is very important that the giver of the massage is
someone that the receiver absolutely trusts and is comfortable with.
This is why tantric massage is often done between lovers to enhance the
sexual experience.
- In performing tantric massage, there are five points that both the giver and the receiver
should keep in mind. These points are the following:
1.
Tantric massage, just like any form of massage, has physical health
benefits and the receiver can derive tremendous sensual pleasure from
it. Both the giver and the receiver should remember that tantric
massage uses pleasure to open the body to spiritual growth.
2. The
giver of the tantric massage should perform the massage freely without
expecting anything in return. On the other hand, the receiver of the
massage should open him/herself to the effects of tantric massage
without the necessity of reciprocation.
3. Sensual pleasure does
not always equate to sexual pleasure.
4. There is no limitation as to
what part of the body can be touched and how it is to be touched in
tantric massage, as the sensual receptors of the body are not limited to the
genitals. The experience itself can be very liberating. The giver and
the receiver, however, should agree on what is comfortable and what is
not comfortable between them.
5. Tantric massage utilizes specific massage and breathing techniques.
Both
the giving and the receiving of tantric massage is a worthwhile
experience. It leads to the path not only of pleasure but also of
healing, self-awareness and harmony.
10. What Are The Physical Boundaries Between You and A Client?
My
mission is to bring sexuality and spirituality together in a unique
transformational experience. As such I have designed my offerings in
order to expand the definition of erotic.
Therefore, reverting back to "mechanical" sex acts would be contrary to what I intend to accomplish through my endeavors.
Although
I am comfortable with light touches as I serve, the best client
experiences are when a person has entered a place where they are one
with source energy in a state of bliss.
I've
found that one of the most difficult things for men to do is to simply
receive. They're so used to being in control that they feel they should
always be doing something. One of the best reasons to experience a
Tantra Journey with me is to practice receiving without having to do
anything.
That is an authentic Tantra Experience!
"Expectations are resentments in training"
11. Can you help me to relax and become a more confident lover ?
I can help you to learn how to relax
with your body. There are many novel ways to enjoy your body and to
please your lover. The Tantric Journey that I've created is designed so
that you may experience a few of them. I encourage clients to take
these simple and erotic displays of affection with them and apply them
to another more personal encounter.
Through Intimacy Coaching I will support
you in your search for erotic pleasures. You will receive encouragement
and practical advice to facilitate your erotic growth! I can recommend
social media groups and other resources for you to interact with others
who have similar interests. Erotic growth is a journey of discovering
your sexual appetites and learning to accept them as a divine part of
who you are.
The main message I will help you with is to learn to have a love affair with yourself first.
12. What should I wear?
A smile and anything you are comfortable in! I will ask you to change into a silk robe before we begin our session.
13. How Should I Prepare For My Tantra Session?
Spiritual,
mental and physical preparation is a key component of Tantra. The
experience will be greatly enhanced if you enter the session with an
open heart, conscious awareness and an available body. Whether
consciously or unconsciously, that preparation begins even before your
scheduled appointment.
New
students in particular, should establish a clear intention for the
impending Tantric session. It's important to remember that the path of
Tantra is both spiritual as well as sensual. Tantra explores our
sexuality and sensuality as a conscious meditation. The act of setting
your intention will create an opening for the session to unfold
naturally and in harmony with the physical, erotic and cosmic energies
contained within you.
You will want to prepare your mind, body and spirit for the experience.
The
following techniques will help you create the quality of openness
required to achieve the highest levels of sexual and spiritual
fulfilment. Choose one or two that resonates with you!
Chakra Balancing
It can be also helpful to spend at least five to ten minutes each day releasing your Heart, Root and Sacral Chakras. This exercise is best done nude in a standing position. Begin by placing your left hand on your Heart Chakra allowing yourself to open to the love and intimacy. Once your heart has released, place your right hand upon your Root Chakra
(between the root of the penis and anus). Remain there for at least
three minutes before moving your right hand to your penis, awakening the
Sacral Chakra, which addresses
sexuality. It is sometimes helpful to gently rock the penis as you
awaken this chakra. Allow your hand to remain there for at least five
minutes. As with the visualization exercise, you might find yourself
sexually aroused. Welcome the arousal and continue to firmly clasp your
genitals, but resist the urge to manipulate the penis. Remember, the
goal is not to provoke orgasm, but rather to awaken the Chakra and move the energy through your body.
Physical Preparation
Many
men benefit from practicing their PC muscle (for men) exercises. These
exercises strengthen and heighten sensitivity of the penis as well as
the anus. Clenching and releasing your buttocks will exercise this
muscle.
Mental Preparation
It
is quite natural for the first-time receiver to experience nervousness
prior to the session. Know that this nervousness will pass once you
enter our sacred space. Perhaps the most important final step you will
take in preparation will occur the moment before you knock on the
door. Pause, close your eyes, and take three cleansing breaths. Then
knock. When the door opens, gaze into the eyes of the goddess
greeting you, knowing that the experience you are about to receive will
bring you to new levels of physical, sexual, emotional and spiritual
awakening. It will be an experience you will not forget.
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